Funeral Flowers: A Token Of Condolence
A funeral is a very difficult time, especially for those who have lost a family member or a close friend. This period requires a great amount of sensitivity and sympathy. And flowers are the perfect way to lend comfort as well as express sympathy during this trying period. Though customs, rituals and manners differ in countries all over the world with varying cultures and religions, offering flowers remains a fitting way to bid adieu to a departed soul. Flowers are displayed during, as well as after, the funeral service and also act as a reminder of the departed person who must have added joy and fulfillment to others lives during the course of his own.
These flowers are best if personally selected, though consulting with a florist is also a good idea as they have a good idea about the most effective designs and colors for the occasion. Guidebooks for conventional flower arrangements styles are also available. However, observance of cultural taboos and good taste is advisable. You can even get a florist to deliver the flowers to the family of the bereaved which allows for minimal invasion of privacy. Flowers can be further designed to express the aura and spirit of the deceased. The deceased's personality can be discussed with the florist to get a customized bouquet according to the personality and quirks of the person which is guaranteed to give extra comfort to the bereaved family. White flower wreaths which symbolize the cycle of life are the most recognized tokens of condolence. There are, however, other styles and arrangements which are also gaining popularity and include flower sprays which are highlighted on easels, fresh flower arrangements in containers and vases, casket sprays and floral designs for inside the casket. The colors which are normally preferred include whites, pastels, pinks etc. At times, red roses and tropical blooms may also be given as tokens of warmth, and also depth of feeling. An offering of potted plants whether green or flowering or bonsai and saplings is said to ignite hope and renewal among the grievers. Caring for a new plant is said to accelerate the act of healing and speed up the mourning process as well. Sending funeral flowers after a few weeks of the funeral is also a good idea, and can be designed as such to underline good cheer and reassurance . There are a number of varieties of flowers that can be used in a funeral proceeding and include roses and carnations at its usual arrangement. They are said to set a more serious tone than other flowers. Flowers that mey also be added to the traditional rose and carnation arrangements include lilies, daisies, asters and delphiniums to lighten the mood by virtue of their variety in colors and sizes. They generally make for a more vibrant and positive ambience for a loved one's funeral. Flowers for funerals as a whole are a great token of condolence. They work by soothing the grievers, and show sensitivity and commiseration. In addition, the presence of flower creates a hallowed atmosphere which shows reverence and sanctification of both death and life. |